all hail the return of romantic love
rooted in the intuition of the divine
To be in love is to be in love with someone.
To be in love without qualifications or conditions
or reservations or limits
or reservations or limits
is to be in love with someone transcendent.
When someone transcendent is my beloved,
he is in my heart, real to me from within me.
When that love is the fulfillment
of my unrestricted thrust to self-transcendence
of my unrestricted thrust to self-transcendence
through intelligence and truth and responsibility,
the one that fulfills that thrust must be supreme
in intelligence, truth, goodness.
in intelligence, truth, goodness.
Since he chooses to come to me by a gift of love for him,
he himself must be love.
Since loving him is my transcending myself,
it also is a denial of the self to be transcended.
Since loving him means loving attention to him,
it is prayer, meditation, contemplation.
Since love of him is fruitful,
it overflows into love
of all those that he loves or might love.
of all those that he loves or might love.
Finally, from an experience of love focused on mystery
there wells forth a longing for knowledge,
while love itself is a longing for union;
so for the lover of the unknown beloved the concept of bliss
is knowledge of him and union with him,
however they may be achieved.
--Bernard Lonergan, Method in Theology
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